A small remark: for us men, communication in itself is not a benefit, a source of energy, or a pleasure, as it often is for women. We always communicate with a purpose—whether for useful information or knowledge. And in the modern world, one can even converse with artificial intelligence in search of knowledge.

This is to say that when women write in their dating profiles or their objectives, "Just to chat" or "Looking for conversation," it means, in reality, that there is nothing for a man to be interested in. The profile’s objectives should include something that will personally spark the interest of your future partner.